Child, Family & Relationship Counselling on Vancouver Island

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At Allius Counselling and Family Mediation Services, we recognize that life will not always be easy. Sometimes, we can use some support to work through challenging experiences. Our human struggle is universal. Seeking out counselling demonstrates a willingness to invest in yourself and your relationships with others.

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Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCC)

Registered Play Therapists

In-Person & Virtual Counselling Options

Child, Youth & Family-Focused Care

Counselling Support for Every Stage of Life

Counselling Support for Every Stage of Life

Life can feel overwhelming especially when emotions run high, relationships feel strained, or parenting becomes exhausting. We support individuals and families with practical tools, emotional relief, and healthier ways to connect.

We commonly help with:

  • Anxiety, stress, and burnout
  • Trauma and difficult experiences
  • ADHD-related challenges (focus, impulsivity, emotional regulation)
  • Grief and loss
  • Parenting stress and family transitions
  • Separation, divorce, and co-parenting
  • Relationship conflict and communication breakdowns
  • Child and teen emotional or behavioural concerns

If you’re not sure what type of counselling fits, we’ll help you choose the right starting point.

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Diversity


We appreciate the uniqueness of each person and family with whom we work while thoughtfully considering the influence culture, identity, history, and socio-political systems have on us.

Meaningful Connection


The healing power of relationships is a foundational principle, and we seek to cultivate true connections with clients, each other, and our community.

Our Counselling Services

Our services are designed to meet you where you are—whether you’re seeking support for your child, your relationship, your family, or yourself.

Child and youth counselling

Child & Youth Counselling

Support for children and teens navigating emotions, behaviour, friendships, school stress, anxiety, trauma, and ADHD-related challenges. Our approach may include play therapy and developmentally appropriate strategies.

Child Counselling & Play Therapy

Child Counselling & Play Therapy

Play therapy helps children express feelings safely, build coping skills, and strengthen connection with caregivers especially during transitions, stress, or big emotions.

Individual & Adult Counselling

Individual & Adult Counselling

Support for anxiety, stress, trauma, grief, self-esteem, life transitions, and personal growth. We’ll work with you to build insight, coping skills, and confidence.

Couples & Relationship Counselling

Couples & Relationship Counselling

Improve communication, rebuild trust, and reduce conflict. We support couples navigating disconnection, recurring arguments, and major life changes.

Parenting & Family Counselling

Parenting & Family Counselling

Practical, supportive counselling for parents and families especially during high-stress seasons, transitions, or co-parenting challenges.

Separation, Divorce & Co-Parenting Support

Separation, Divorce & Co-Parenting Support

Support for separation and divorce, emotional adjustment, and building healthier co-parenting communication, always centered on children’s wellbeing.

Trauma Counselling, EMDR & ART Therapy

Some experiences stay “stuck” in the body and nervous system.

Trauma counselling can help reduce emotional intensity, triggers, and the feeling of being on edge.

We offer trauma-informed care and may incorporate modalities such as:

  • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
  • ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy)

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Our Approach at Allius Counselling Service

Our agency name, “Allius,” comes from combining ALL, I, and US -- reflecting our commitment to fostering connections. For the Allius team, it is all about people connecting with themselves to connect better with others. We aim to support it in our work with people, young and old.

Meet Our Team

Finding the right counsellor matters. Our team brings warmth, clinical skill, and ethical care to every session. We’ll help match you with a therapist who fits your goals, preferences, and needs.

Meet Our Counsellors

Our Approach at Allius Counselling Service
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Lurline Raposo

MA, RCC-ACS, CPT, BCRPT-S, BCPC

Clinical Director/ Registered Clinical Counsellor/ Play Therapy Supervisor/ Assoc Family Mediator & Parenting Coordinator


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Ladona Pinder

MA, RSW, RCC, BCRPT

Registered Social Worker, Clinical Counsellor and Play Therapist

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CHAOWEN YUAN

MS.ED, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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MICHELLE MILLS

MA, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Elizabeth Stetar

BA (Child & Youth)

Family Mediation /Parent Support Associate

Administrative Assistant

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Emma Mork

MSc, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Liz Baerg

BHS, MA (In PROGRESS)

Counselling Student Intern

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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Authenticity


We are humans first and counsellors second. As humans who face suffering throughout our lives, as clinicians, we can guide with this shared vulnerability.

Counselling Services Across Vancouver Island

Allius Counselling Service supports clients across Vancouver Island, including:

Location

Nanaimo

Location

Duncan

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Surrounding communities

Allius Counselling Service provides counselling for children, youth, adults, couples, and families across Nanaimo, Ladysmith, Chemainus, Duncan, and surrounding Vancouver Island communities.

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