Child, Family & Relationship Counselling

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At Allius Counselling and Family Mediation Services, we recognize that life will not always be easy. Sometimes, we can use some support to work through challenging experiences. Our human struggle is universal. Seeking out counselling demonstrates a willingness to invest in yourself and your relationships with others.

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Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCC)

Registered Play Therapists

In-Person & Virtual Counselling Options

Adult, Child, Youth & Family-Focused Care

Counselling Support for Every Stage of Life

Real Support for Real Life

Parenting today is challenging. Relationships take work. And sometimes the weight of it all becomes too much to carry alone. Solutions seem hard to find. At Allius, we work can work with you or your whole family because when the adults are supported, we know that kids thrive too. 

Maybe your child is melting down every day and you don't know why. Maybe you're like a lot of parents today who are doing their absolute best and still feeling like it's just not enough. 

Maybe you and your partner keep having the same arguments. Maybe you've lost something or someone and don't know how to move forward -- a relationship or a version of the life you thought you'd have. 

Maybe it's anxiety that has taken over, or a traumatic time that keeps pulling you back. Maybe you are navigating the ongoing stress of caring for an elder parent or someone you love with mental health difficulties. You feel overwhelmed and tapped out.

Whatever brought you here, just know that you are in the right place.

If you’re not sure what type of counselling fits, we’ll help you choose the right starting point.

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Diversity


We appreciate the uniqueness of each person and family with whom we work while thoughtfully considering the influence culture, identity, history, and socio-political systems have on us.

Meaningful Connection


The healing power of relationships is a foundational principle, and we seek to cultivate true connections with clients, each other, and our community.

Our Counselling Services

Our services are designed to meet you where you are—whether you’re seeking support for your child, your relationship, your family, or yourself.

Child and youth counselling

Child & Youth Counselling

Support for children and adolescents navigating emotions, behaviour, friendships, school stress, anxiety, trauma, autism and ADHD-related challenges. Our approaches may include play therapy and other creative, developmentally appropriate strategies. Our goal is to make counselling work for kids and teens!

Child Counselling & Play Therapy

Play Therapy

Play therapy helps children express their thoughts and feelings through play and creative tools. Research shows play therapy builds coping skills, strengthens connections with caregivers and peers, lower stress, or improves responses to big emotions. It is the most developmentally appropriate way to support the mental health of children. And most of all, it's FUN!

Individual & Adult Counselling

Individual Adult Counselling

You're managing. Maybe it's stress, anger, grief, anxiety or just a sense that things could be better. Individual counselling gives you a private place to reflect on what's holding you back and doing something about it. Whether you're someone who talks about their feelings easily or someone who has never done this before, we meet you without pressure or expectations.

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Couples & Relationship Counselling

Couples & Relationship Counselling

Improve communication, rebuild trust, and reduce conflict. We support couples navigating disconnection, recurring arguments, and major life changes.

Parenting & Family Counselling

Parenting & Family Counselling

Practical, supportive counselling for parents and families especially during high-stress seasons, transitions, or co-parenting challenges.

Separation, Divorce & Co-Parenting Support

Separation, Divorce & Co-Parenting Support

Support for separation and divorce, emotional adjustment, and building healthier co-parenting communication, always centered on children’s wellbeing.

Trauma Counselling, EMDR & ART Therapy

Some experiences stay “stuck” in the body and nervous system.

Trauma counselling can help reduce emotional intensity, triggers, and the feeling of being on edge.

We offer trauma-informed care and may incorporate modalities such as:

  • EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
  • ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy)

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Our Approach at Allius Counselling Service

Our agency name, “Allius,” comes from combining ALL, I, and US -- reflecting our commitment to fostering connections. For the Allius team, it is all about people connecting with themselves to connect better with others. We aim to support it in our work with people, young and old.

Meet Our Team

Finding the right counsellor matters. Our team brings warmth, clinical skill, and ethical care to every session. We’ll help match you with a therapist who fits your goals, preferences, and needs.

Meet Our Counsellors

Our Approach at Allius Counselling Service
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Lurline Raposo

MA, RCC-ACS, CPT, BCRPT-S, BCPC

Clinical Director/ Registered Clinical Counsellor/ Play Therapy Supervisor/ Assoc Family Mediator & Parenting Coordinator


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CHAOWEN YUAN

MS.ED, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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MICHELLE MILLS

MA, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Elizabeth Stetar

BA (Child & Youth)

Family Mediation /Parent Support Associate

Administrative Assistant

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Emma Mork

MSc, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Liz Baerg

BHS, MA (In PROGRESS)

Counselling Student Intern

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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Authenticity


We are humans first and counsellors second. As humans who face suffering throughout our lives, as clinicians, we can guide with this shared vulnerability.

Counselling Services Across Vancouver Island

Allius Counselling Service supports clients across Vancouver Island, including:

Location

Nanaimo

Location

Duncan

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Surrounding communities

Allius Counselling Service provides counselling for children, youth, adults, couples, and families across Nanaimo, Ladysmith, Chemainus, Duncan, and surrounding Vancouver Island communities.

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